1 in 3 Older Adults Are Lonely — Here’s How We Can Change That

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We’ve all heard the statistics: 1 in 3 older adults are experiencing isolation and loneliness, and 28% are living alone. These realities pose serious health risks. In fact, the U.S. Surgeon General has declared loneliness and isolation a national epidemic, warning that their effects can be as harmful as smoking, obesity, and air pollution.

Loneliness vs. Social Isolation

It’s important to understand the difference between loneliness and social isolation. Loneliness is the distressing feeling of being alone, regardless of the amount of social contact. Social isolation, on the other hand, occurs when a person has few or infrequent social connections. Both can have a serious impact on health and well-being.

Causes of Isolation

It’s easy to see how these challenges arise. Retirement, the loss of a spouse or loved ones, reduced mobility, the inability to drive, and chronic health conditions all contribute to isolation. These challenges are common, but it’s how we cope and adapt that is key to reducing loneliness and maintaining our connections.

What You Can Do

You might be wondering, what can I do? How can I help someone in this situation? Research is clear: engaging in meaningful and productive activities with others helps us live longer, boosts our mood, and gives life a renewed sense of purpose.

Ways Older Adults Can Stay Connected and Supported

Telephone Reassurance

Programs are available that provide scheduled wellness calls from trained staff or volunteers. These calls offer safety checks and meaningful conversations, which can be a lifeline for older adults living alone.

Congregate Meal Sites

Many communities host meal programs where older adults can gather to share a nutritious meal together. These sites not only provide healthy food but also the chance to connect socially.

Senior Centers and Programming

Senior centers often provide opportunities for classes, games, exercise programs, cultural events, and social activities. They serve as hubs for older adults to meet new friends and stay active.

Library Services

Libraries are more than books. Many offer book clubs, technology help sessions, workshops, and activities that encourage lifelong learning and community engagement.

Counseling and Behavioral Health Support

Support is available in different forms, including in-home counseling, virtual sessions with coaching, and traditional office-based counseling. These services address issues such as depression, grief, and anxiety.

Adult Day Programs

Adult Day Care or Adult Day Health Programs provide supervised care, activities, and social opportunities for older adults during the day. These programs also offer respite for family caregivers.

Respite Care

Respite programs allow caregivers to take a much-needed break while ensuring their loved one receives safe and engaging care.

Support Groups

Whether focused on caregiving, grief, or chronic conditions, support groups help older adults and families connect with others who share similar experiences.

Volunteering

Many older adults find purpose and connection by giving back through volunteering. Opportunities range from schools to food banks to mentoring programs.

Faith-Based Organizations

Places of worship often provide social, spiritual, and volunteer opportunities that bring people together and help reduce feelings of isolation.

Conclusion

Together, these programs and opportunities form a safety net for older adults. They offer not just services, but meaningful connections—something we all need, especially as we age. If you know a senior who may be struggling with isolation, reach out. Whether it’s a phone call, a ride to a meal site, or a referral to your local Area Agency on Aging, small actions can make a big difference in the lives of older adults.

Local Resources

If you are not familiar with the organizations in your area, start by calling 211, your local senior center, or your regional Area Agency on Aging to learn what resources are available.

In Muskegon, Ottawa and Oceana Counties, Senior Resources is the Area Agency on Aging. For Allegan, Ionia, Kent, Lake, Mason, Mecosta, Montcalm, Newaygo and Osceola, the Area Agency on Aging of Western Michigan supports those counties. Call us, we are here to help.

Senior Resources: 1-800-442-0054
Area Agency on Aging of Western Michigan: 1-888-456-5664

Sources

National Institute on Aging, Administration for Community Living, USAging.

Pictured: Sheyenne Cole, Senior Resources Director of MI Choice Waiver with patient Lesa Jordan, checking in with her on a home visit.